Scam Victim in Denial: Understanding Their Reactions and Offering Support
In Australia, scams cost individuals billions of dollars annually, and the emotional toll is immeasurable. But what happens when someone you care about falls victim to a scam and doesn’t realise—or refuses to believe—it’s happening? Often, victims of scams are deeply in denial, and their reactions when confronted can be surprising, even heartbreaking. One of the most common and challenging responses is a desperate attempt to prove their loved ones wrong —sometimes by continuing to send money to the scammer. This reaction stems from a mix of emotional investment, embarrassment, and a fear of losing hope in what they perceive as a genuine opportunity or relationship. Here are some reactions you might encounter when addressing the situation with someone you suspect is being scammed, along with insights on why they occur and how to respond compassionately. 1. “You just don’t understand. They need my help!” Scammers often exploit a victim’s sense of empathy or responsibility. Whet...