Supporting a Loved One After They’ve Been Scammed
Discovering that a family member or friend has fallen victim to a scam can be heartbreaking. It’s even more challenging when they are in denial about the situation or continue to engage with the scammer. While you may feel powerless, there are several ways you can support them without enabling the scam or putting yourself at financial risk. This guide explores the phases your loved one may go through and the role you can play in helping them recover. Phase 1: Recognition of the Scam Challenges In many cases, victims may be in denial about being scammed. They might feel embarrassed, ashamed, or defensive when confronted, especially if they’ve invested a significant amount of money or time. The scam may have been emotionally manipulative, making it even harder for them to accept the truth. What You Can Do Be Patient: Avoid accusations or harsh judgments. Approach the topic with empathy and a non-confrontational tone. Provide Evidence: Share factual information about the scam. Sh...